mama-boy:

i had a fuckload of cis hetero folks tell me what being queer is today, and this is after telling me they wanted to study queers to improve their art.

and then a “gay not queer” lady told me (even though i introduced myself as male and queer) that i was a woman and straight (because she had listened in on my private convo about my partners with a friend and my partners all identify as male). yeah asshole because you get to tell me who the hell i am and what my relationships are 

then they told me what queer art is (apparently it has to be about sexuality otherwise it doesnt count - because they’ve listened to ‘queer music’ and it ‘sounded just like normal music’)

i wont even go into the white cis chick who said shes pansexual because she doesnt see race or gender she just sees people

then someone told me that maybe its good for me to hear a heterosexual viewpoint.

the whole fucking WORLD is a heterosexual cissexist viewpoint, am i expected to be  told by multiple strangers who i am and that they hope to study “you queers” and then say thanks ?!

fucking queer theory classes. im staying in and breaking necks

i am aggressively queer.